Bryce is booming with a fantastic enthusiasm for helping, and I've been trying to focus on having him do tasks that he can accomplish solo and that help emphasize how capable he is(otherwise he sees the help Deacon is getting as
special attention and all of a sudden Bryce needs help with his socks!). Bryce's list of "can do's" is ever growing.
Reading a friend's blog I realized that other four year olds were emptying the dishwasher--so we've eased in with the flatware, and Bryce is quite proud. He's such an observant kid that as he sorts flatware, he narrates my sorting of the other items, "You're going to put that in the pantry, right?" "Those go up high, right?" "That's my cocoa cup, right?"
And of course the boys love teaming up to bake cookies. The KitchenAid makes just the right amount of noise to intrigue, and they are so careful to always ask, and keep fingers far away from the moving parts. They have such cheerful attitudes about hard work, and nearly always elect to help me stir, mix and chop (using that "onion chopper" thingy that they get to pound down) unless Phil is working outside and they need to help.
So yes, cooking alone is faster, less messy and pretty much a sure bet . . . but it's so boring. I mean what can compare with that casserole within which Deacon had secreted Goldfish crackers? Or the time that Bryce tasted sliced mushrooms and then carefully returned them to the chicken pot pie filling (since I couldn't identify them, I just thought that 350 degrees would kill any yuckiness, but no worries, no company that night).
I hope our boys' heads are filled up with joyful kitchen experiences. I have a wealth of cooking memories from my days of step-stool cooking, making: chocolate-carmel-pecan turtles with Grandma Jeanne, homemade pasta with Dad, cookies with Great-Grandma, everything under the sun with my terribly patient mother, and then as an adult really learning to cook in my twenties from roommates and Grandma Bev.
The boys like to recite a list of
boys do/girls do, that includes, "girls wear pink", "only boys can fight 'cuz it's ugly when girls fight" (thank Narnia), "girls wear make up", "only naughty boys wear earrings", "boys and girls can hunt" (thank Phil who's trying to get me to don the camo), and the most applicable to this post, "girls and boys cook".